Fair questions, answered the way the thread answers them
Will the house tell me what a session includes if I ask politely?
No, and politeness is not the obstacle. Nobody answering messages is in a position to speak for the woman who will be in the room. She decides, she says where her limits are at the start of the visit, and anything written in advance would be a stranger's guess that she never agreed to. The courteous question gets the same answer as the blunt one, which is at least consistent.
What are the four things a booking actually fixes?
The address, the hour, the length and the figure, plus a name if you have one. Those are settled in writing and they do not move afterwards without a new agreement. Everything past them belongs to the therapist.
How long is the wait once it is confirmed?
Forty to sixty minutes to any central address, counted from the moment the booking is agreed and she is ready to travel rather than from your first message. Plan against sixty. Rooms at the Schiphol airport hotels are arranged separately, with the driving time each way put in writing and accepted before the hour is fixed.
Is there a surcharge for evenings, weekends or holidays?
None. One hour is 180 euros on a Tuesday afternoon and 180 euros on a Saturday night. Nothing is added for the day, the hour or her journey anywhere inside the ring, and nothing is added at the door beyond the balance of the agreed figure.
Which bookings carry a deposit?
On seven kinds of booking: anything arranged more than twenty-four hours ahead, the eight hour block, any booking with two therapists, any room at Schiphol or an airport hotel, any peak date such as King's Day or Pride or the days between Christmas and New Year, any session of three hours or more, and the first booking anyone makes here. A returning guest asking for one or two hours at a city address later the same day is the one case that carries nothing in advance.
How much is the deposit and how does it travel?
Half of whatever figure applies. Card is the usual route, with Revolut, Wise or cryptocurrency for anyone who would rather use one of those. Bank transfer and PayPal are not used, and cash cannot serve as a deposit because a deposit is settled before she leaves and cash only moves once she is in the room. The amount and the destination appear inside the confirmed thread and nowhere else.
If I cancel, what happens to the deposit?
The house keeps only the share of the fee already earned when your message lands. More than twenty-four hours before the start, that is nothing and the whole deposit returns. Inside the final day, while she is still at home, half stays and half comes back. Once she is on her way, the deposit stays. If the hour is taken by somebody else it is repaid in full, and if you can show the loss was smaller than the sum kept, only the smaller sum is kept. You are never liable to the house for damages.
And if there was no deposit on the booking?
Then nothing at all is owed while she is still at home. Once she has set out, what is owed is the journey share of the fee, and the house asks for nothing past that.
Can I move a booking to another day?
One move is free, provided the request reaches the thread more than twenty-four hours before the booked time and the new date falls inside a fortnight. The deposit travels across intact. A second move, or one asked for inside the final day, is measured on the notice scale exactly as a cancellation would be.
How is the balance paid?
In the room when she arrives. Cash in euros is straightforward, and cash in another major currency is fine when the exact sum in that currency has been confirmed in writing before she sets out. Every figure quoted on this site is a euro figure.
Can I ask for a particular woman?
Yes, and naming her in the first line is the fastest way to get a useful answer. If she has no opening at that hour, the reply says who does and stops there. Nobody will talk you out of the name you chose or into one you did not.
Do I have to choose a woman at all?
No. Plenty of first messages describe an hour rather than a person: the length, the time, and a line about what sort of evening it is. Those are answered just as quickly as a named request.
What if I remember someone from a previous visit but not her name?
Say the night, the district and anything else you recall, and it can usually be traced. If you do have the name, that on its own is enough to work from.
Is there an age check at the door?
There may be, and it applies to everyone in the room. Whoever books and anyone else present is twenty-one or over. A photo document is looked at once and handed straight back, with nothing copied, photographed or written down. Where she cannot establish who is present, she goes again before anything begins.
Can I book for somebody else?
Only if that person knows about it and wants it, and it is checked at the door rather than taken on trust. A booking arranged as a surprise for somebody who has not agreed to it is not one the house will take.
What if I have been drinking?
A drink with dinner is nobody's concern. A guest who cannot hold a conversation is a different matter, and a therapist who finds that at the door leaves. The fee for the reserved time stands in that case, which is worth knowing before rather than after.
Does the house work outside Amsterdam?
No. Central Amsterdam on the forty to sixty minute window, and rooms at the Schiphol airport hotels by arrangement with the journey agreed first. Anywhere else gets a short no rather than a maybe, at any hour and for any money.
Can I book by phone?
Everything here is written. A written booking leaves the address, the hour and the length sitting in a thread both sides can read again, which prevents more mistakes than any conversation could. It is also simply more accurate at the end of a long day.
What if the room is not suitable for the format I picked?
You will be told before anything is arranged rather than discovering it together at the door. Gel and water formats care about the bathroom, and two therapists care about the floor space. Two lines describing the room settle all of it in advance.
What happens if a guest pushes for something she has declined?
The visit ends at that point and she leaves. The fee for the reserved time stands, nothing further is added, and nothing is argued about on the doorstep. It is written on several pages of this site precisely so that it cannot come as a surprise.
I have booked two hours for this evening and something has come up. What do I lose?
It depends on the clock rather than on the reason. Two hours is 360 euros and was confirmed with 180. A message more than twenty-four hours ahead of the booked time brings the whole 180 back. A message inside the final day, while she is still at home, leaves 90 with the house as earned fee and returns 90 to you. A message sent once she is already travelling to you leaves the 180 where it is, unless another guest takes the hour you released, in which case it is returned in full. Show that the real loss was smaller than the sum kept and only that smaller sum is kept.
This is my first time booking here and I want tonight. Does anything go ahead?
Yes, half does, for one reason on its own: a first booking carries it whatever the hour and however close to it you are writing. An hour is 180 euros, so 90 is asked for once the hour and the address are fixed in the thread, by card, or by Revolut, Wise or cryptocurrency if you would rather. Because the session runs the same day, you also write in the thread that you want it carried out straight away. The other 90 is handed over when she arrives. Next time, a same-day hour or two at a city address is paid in full at the door and nothing goes ahead.
Can I move my booking to Friday instead of cancelling it?
Once, at no cost, provided you ask more than twenty-four hours before the time you booked and Friday falls inside the following fortnight. On those terms the money already sent moves across untouched and there is nothing further to settle until she arrives. A second move, or a first one asked for inside the final day, is measured exactly as a cancellation written at that minute would be, and whatever the notice scale does not keep travels on to the new day with the booking.
Who settles what a session will include?
She does, on her own, every time. The house agrees an hour, an address and a length, and that is the whole of what it settles. Your therapist states her limits in her own words once she is in the room, before anything starts, and those limits hold until she leaves. She may turn a booking down before it is agreed or after, and she may end a visit at the point she chooses, without owing anyone a reason for either. The terms put the same arrangement in flatter language.
Can any of it be agreed in the booking thread instead?
No, and pressing does not move it. Four things are written down: the address, the hour, the length and the figure, with a name from the roster when you already have one. Everything beyond those four belongs to the woman who knocks, so a message that pushes for more gets a courteous nothing in reply. A thread that keeps pushing is closed rather than answered, and you are told so plainly instead of being left waiting.
What happens if a guest pushes against a limit she has named?
The visit ends at that point and she leaves. The fee for the reserved time stands, nothing further is added to it, and nothing is argued about on the doorstep. This is the one part of the arrangement with no give in it anywhere, and it is written here in advance precisely so that it cannot surprise anybody later.
Will a document be asked for at the door?
It may be, and no hour or booking makes that less likely. Whoever books, and anyone else who will be in the room, is twenty-one or over. A photo document is looked at once and handed straight back in the same movement; nothing from it is copied, photographed or noted down. If she cannot settle who is in the room, she goes before the session begins, and the age statement explains why that rule has no exceptions.